A World of Heterosexism

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All around us the world is changing and yet in many ways we are still required to retain the norms and ideals of something archaic. We are forced to upgrade cars, fashion, electronics and other such "necessities" almost daily through our abhorrent planned obsolescence culture and yet when it comes to relationships we are given one option and one option only, heterosexuality. Mind you I have no issue with heterosexuality, I respect and accept ALL sexualities but I don't believe that hetero is the only legitimate choice when it comes to sexuality. Science has long observed alternatives to heterosexuality in the animal world and yet when it comes to us humans the whole thing is still stigmatized well into the 21st century and the rights of an entire segment of the population are up for discussion and trial by the government. Should we not just stop caring what the government thinks and just do what we feel like when it comes to our intimate lives? In a truly FREE country would we not be able to be with whoever we want to be with? Why is the idea of a marriage or a union between two people so limited?

I have been all sorts of sexualities. Presently I am in a heterosexual relationship, considering my initial experiences up to a certain age one might have labeled me a lesbian, then a bisexual and during a certain time in my life when I lived in a close minded redneck hell I was very much an asexual. I am now married to a heterosexual man and yet I am sexually attracted to women and do not exclude the possibility of having an intimate relationship with them. In all honesty I don't understand why the government has any right to tell me I can or cannot also marry one of these women in the future if I feel like it. The idea here being that it should be the choice of the people involved and NOT the choice of some elected or selected men in suits who have never met me.

I am tired of all the judgment, the scrutiny, the gossip and the idiocy that seems to surround sex and sexuality. Mention sex or nudity or anything erotic amongst a group of seemingly intelligent adults and suddenly the whole group turns into Beavis and Butthead regardless of gender. Personally I am tired of it. I am not anything that needs to be categorized or subcategorized I am like the rest of the world SIMPLY HUMAN. I am not a pervert, not a swinger, a not some nymphomaniac I am just a person who happens to have an open minded view of the human sexual experience. I hope that eventually society becomes more accepting of the way others live but for now all I can do is hope and to comment and to hope that my opinions chip away at the rock of ignorance at least on a sub microscopic level, knowing  even that will make me very happy.

Much Love,

XOXOXOXOXOXOXO :kiss:

Mlle Audrey :heart:
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tonysphotos's avatar
I agree one should be able to love whomever they choose to love period!